CharmingDate has quite a few different services.They offer live chat and live chat with video for instant communication. Admirer Mail is a  way to find out more about the ladies before taking the next step and it’s absolutely FREE for you to read and you receive these introductory letters from ladies that you may have sparked their interest by adding them to your favourites! There’s a service called Cupid Notes, Cupid Notes is a FREE short message any gentleman can send to a lady to express his interest.

There’s a letter exchange service called EMF mail where the letters you send and receive are professionally interpreted. Your also able to call ladies by phone which are called Love Calls. There’s 2 ways of doing this, you can call her instantly or you can schedule a time to call. Flowers and Gifts are an other service that CharmingDate has.

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The prices for the services are as follow

Live Chat costs .5 credits per 5 mins, with video it’s an additional .5 credits per 5 mins. EMF mail cost 1 credit per letter. Your able to read admirer mail for free but  to replay you must use the EMF mail service. Cupid Notes are free but are very limited in how much you can say. Love Calls costs 1 credit per minute, the scheduled calls are an additional 1 credit setup fee. Flowers and gifts of course range in prices.

Credit cost

100Credit Pack $3.99 per credit $ 399.00
60Credit Pack $5.00 per credit $ 299.00
32Credit Pack $5.60 per credit $ 179.00
16Credit Pack $6.00 per credit $ 96.00
8Credit Pack $6.50 per credit $ 52.00
3Credit Pack $7.00 per credit $ 21.00


  • More than 15,000 profiles of gorgeous women to choose from
  • A few different ways to initiate contact
  • A few different ways to correspond with the ladies
  • You can hide your online status
  • Instant phone calling


  • Expensive if your not careful
  • They don’t offer live support 24/7
  • Not many ladies have the webcam option
  • They don’t offer Romance Tours

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Tips And Advice

CharmingDate can be quite expensive if your not careful! I know it’s hard not to let it get out of hand due to the amount of hot beautiful women that will try and get your attention. I’ve been a member of this site for quite a while but haven’t used it to much, I’ve been more active on AnastasiaDate.

When I first started out with International dating sites, the first site I became a member of was ChnLove,  a sister to this site. I was active on the site for more than a year and had met a few Chinese women I was interested in meeting but due to a couple of issues I missed my opportunity to go to China. Since I wasn’t going to have the opportunity to go to China for an other year I decided to step away from the site for a few months.

When I was ready to start my search again I switched gears and decided to try Russian women instead. I thought the cultural differences wouldn’t be as great as with Chinese women. When I was a member of ChnLove there wasn’t an option for Live Chat so all of my correspondence was through letters. When I restarted my search CharmingDate still didn’t have Live Chat so that’s why I ended up on AnastasiaDate because Live Chat is my preferred method of communication.

  • First of all, don’t bother joining if your not sincere on finding a wife abroad! Only approx 3% of men who join international dating sites actually go to meet the women they’ve been communicating with.
  • Don’t join or start communicating with ladies unless your planning on going to meet them for real within 3 months! The biggest complaint I’ve heard form the ladies that I’ve chatted with or met is that very few if any men come to meet them for real. Especially the ladies that live in the more remote small centres.
  • Remember these sites are meant to introduce you to available women These are not a good place to develop full on relationships. Get acquainted with 3 or more ladies, preferably from the same cities and go there to meet them for real within 3 months! Once you meet the ladies you will see if you have a real connection with any of them or not.
  • Start with the mind set that your not the only one that these ladies may be communicating with and let them know that they’re not the only one your communicating with.
  • Buy the largest quantity  of credits at a time. The more you buy the less expensive are the credits
  • Set yourself a budget and stick with it, whether it’s $200.00 or  $400.00 per month.
  • If your worried about whether these women are real, only communicate with the ones in chat that have a webcam
  • When video chatting, after your satisfied that the lady in the video is the same lady your chatting with, turn the video off and you will only be charged .5 credits per 5 minutes.
  • I now avoid the letter exchange option because I find it quite expensive for what you get. Most of the letters you will receive will be very short and to the point. Think about it, some of the more desirable women probably get lots of letters so for them writing long letters is not something they feel like doing!
  • Once you get acquainted with a lady, ask her if she would be willing to communicate with you on an other program like Skype. A lot of them won’t because they feel more comfortable and secure staying on the site. It’s worth a shot anyways. If she agrees, you’ll be able to get her personal information on a phone date.
  • Don’t worry about sending any gifts through the store on the site. Most of the women don’t expect anything anyways! You will only have known them for a short time anyway.
  • Once you go over to meet the ladies for real you don’t need to use the cupid date option. It’s just an added expense for nothing.
  • Treat these women with respect. I’ve met quite a few of them in real life and they’re all sweet and beautiful women! Most of them are truly sincere in falling in love and finding their life partner.

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I will keep updating this page as needed and I’ve also opened it up for comments and discussions so I will always be around to answer any questions you may have. Good luck out there gentlemen!